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Should I contact negative relatives I cut out of my live 2 years ago?
I have 2 aunts and a cousin that I haven't spoken to in nearly 2 years. There are many reasons I cut off contact with them. I was very close to them and they basically let me down by gossiping amongst themselves and other family members about my life and always breaking my trust in them. They also began to dislike my husband for various petty reasons. He is like a saint compared to their men and I wouldn't stand for it. I came to realize they are just miserable people and unhappy in their own lives so they probably loved dragging my name though the mud because I was and am happy. So now 2 years later I am beginning to consider patching things up. I originally felt so relieved that I was free from all their bull but I really miss their children and I guess them too in some ways. I am starting to forget how exactly they pushed me this far. Do you think I should give it a try? I have a sister who is still close to them and things don't seem to have changed. What to do?
If you're asking the question, sounds like you have a hankerin' to see how the kiddies are doing. Since your sister has contact with them, you could always find out through her...but that doesn't seem like it would be enough for you.
If you want to get back into their lives, then you might have to do a lot of apologizing...even though you dropped the relationship beause they hurt you. Still, they're going to talk either way. That's just the way miserable people are. If you were to reconnect with them, I would keep them at arm's length and not allow what they say to get to you so much. Conact should be limited in order to maintain your own sanity!
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